How’s this for a list of things we moms often talk about, worry about, and obsess about: putting ourselves last, having no time, struggling to squeeze in self-care, and negativity toward our bodies.
Relatable? Likely. And, very understandable. There are impossible standards to meet as mothers — and as women in general. One thing I never thought would help me break through some of these barriers to self-love and acceptance? Doing a boudoir shoot. And after taking the leap to make it happen, I can say I wholeheartedly recommend it.
I thought I would feel awkward, self-conscious, and highly critical. But, I’m here to tell you, the complete opposite experience is possible. And, trust me, whether you feel supremely confident in your body or not, having pictures taken in lingerie is probably not something many envision doing. But I left that studio feeling like a million bucks, and I hadn’t even seen the photos yet! Whether you do the photo shoot for your eyes only, as a gift for someone special, or to display proudly, it is more about the process than the end product.
If you want to lean in to your power and beauty in all shapes of womanhood and motherhood, contemplate a boudoir photo shoot! And consider these tips as you do:
- Invest in some outfits or lingerie that bring out your inner goddess, whatever that means for you!
- Get your hair and makeup done. Many boudoir photographers offer that as part of their services, and who doesn’t love a glam moment?!
- Bring a playlist that has hype-girl energy.
- Let go of any preconceived notions of what body you’re currently in or what it ever looked like before. To channel Peloton’s Jess Simms, you are a masterpiece and a work in progress.
- Trust the professionals — they know what looks good.
Speaking of the professionals, who better to recommend a photographer than other moms who’ve loved their experience?! Check out these Boston-area photographers who specialize in boudoir photos, and gift yourself a main character moment.
Brittany Palmer Studios
Worcester
Brittany is a mom of four, a registered nurse, and a photographer! Her experience as an ICU nurse has taught her the importance of not hesitating to capture those important moments. Just get in front of the camera, mama — don’t wait to lose those extra pounds or to find enough time. You’ll treasure it for a lifetime.
Boudoir by Cindy Ko
Mattapoisett
Cindy is all about capturing authentic moments, and she has a knack for creating a comfortable atmosphere. Her ability to connect with others ensures anyone will feel at ease and confident in front of the camera — and she delights in proving to her clients that they are truly stunning.
Melissa Luella
Somerville
Mel loves to remind women how genuinely beautiful and fearless they are! She feels her purpose in life is to inspire every woman who comes in front of her lens — she wants to be a mirror to their greatness and their potential. This location is perfect for Boston moms who want to give boudoir photos a try!
Stephanie Dozois
Charlton
Steph had her first boudoir session taken 10 years ago after her second baby was born. After two C-sections and a whole lot of life changes, she needed to find the sexy, vibrant woman she’d once been. Steph’s “empowerment boudoir” sessions exist to help women find their beauty, sexiness, and confidence
Stories Untold Studios
Shirley
Jess is a master of her craft and at creating a safe, FUN space for a boudoir session. No matter someone’s size, ability, shape, color, or age (18+), she wants the experience to be for you! She combines a comfortable experience with powerful images to serve every mom.
