We’ve all read the “my husband is an idiot man-child” articles and social media posts, and of course we laugh and commiserate where it’s applicable. But I have to admit, I often can’t relate.
Now don’t get me wrong — my husband is by no means perfect, and we don’t always split the household duties 50/50. But we try. He tries. Most of the dads I know do the same: They cook, clean, carpool, help with baths and bedtime. Why wouldn’t they? I think it’s time to give credit where credit is due and thank these “modern” Dads for all they do.
Don’t we want to be recognized and thanked for all we do as mothers and wives? Father’s Day is coming, and it’s important to call attention to all the wonderful things the dads do — instead of focusing on where they fall short. I know I couldn’t do what I do without a great partner, even with all his imperfections. (And I know I’m full of imperfections myself!) In honor of Father’s Day, I want to honor all the ways my husband and so many other fathers are doing this dad thing so well! Happy Father’s Day!
1. You play with our kids.
There is nothing sweeter than a man teaching a child to ride a bike, throw a ball, or make a sand castle.
2. You make delicious meals for all of us.
Let’s face it, we would likely starve without you.
3) You kiss and hug our boys.
You aren’t afraid to show affection to them, and I love seeing our boys jump into Daddy’s arms to say I love you! There’s nothing sweeter than seeing you hug our toddler!
4) You handle morning wake up and drop off all on your own.
It’s not always easy, and I know you grow weary of the grind. But it’s pretty impressive that you can single-handedly manage a morning. On the days I work, you seem to effortlessly manage getting our boys up, fed, dressed, and off to school.
5) You grocery shop
You are so good at it — and since you are the one keeping us fed, I’m very thankful that you actually like to do it! You also manage to come home with twice the groceries for less money than when I shop. How do you do that?!
6) You are committed to being involved with the kids’ childcare and education.
When it came time to find new childcare, you did your research, you took a tour, and you spoke with the director so we could make the decision together.
7) You have a busy schedule, deadlines, and responsibilities, but I can count on you.
We’re in this together, and I appreciate it more than you know!
We may disagree, fall behind, make mistakes, have crazy days, and need breaks, but we are partners. And I want to thank you! For all the dads out there who are trying, loving their families with all they’ve got, and putting their best foot forward, thank you! We love you!
