The store shelves are filled with pink hearts and boxed chocolates. Ready or not, Valentine’s Day is here! There are so many ways to celebrate the season, but I like to think of Valentine’s Day as a chance to share love with people in our community who may need to be reminded that they are seen and cared about. Looking for ways to spread the love beyond family? Here are a few opportunities! And remember, no matter how you choose to give, every act of kindness makes a difference.

Seniors

My mom and I used to deliver Meals on Wheels when I was a child, and I learned that for some seniors that drop off was their main social interaction. Your town’s senior center or council of aging would be a great place to inquire about holiday service — a valentine or letter to a senior can make their day! Make cards or write notes to seniors through:

AARP Wish of a Lifetime “Cupid Crew”
Brighten a Day
Love for Our Elders

Veterans and active military

My father is a Navy veteran and was the commanding officer of a submarine. I think my appreciation for letters and cards comes from knowing that for a huge part of their marriage, my parents only had that type of correspondence — no emails, no texts, no FaceTime! You can contact your town’s veteran services department or get involved with a local or national veterans organization. Sending a card or letter can spread joy! Write letters to soldiers through organizations like:

Operation Gratitude
Hugs for Soldiers
Soldiers’ Angels
A Million Thanks
Operation We Are Here

Or, volunteer time by serving a meal to veterans in the Boston area at the New England Center and Home for Veterans.

Patients and caregivers

Whether you are a patient or caregiver in a hospital, receiving a note of appreciation can go a long way. Boston Children’s Hospital hosts a Valentine’s campaign, where you can fill out a form online and your valentine will be displayed on the hospital’s digital signage. There are digital campaigns with children’s hospitals like St. Jude’s or the Children’s Medical Center Foundation. You can also contact your local hospital to see if they allow physical cards.

Local families and individuals in need

There are a number of organizations in Greater Boston that focus on aiding the unhoused and underserved. Try Father Bill’s MainSpring, Rosie’s Place, Horizons for Homeless Children, Boston Rescue Mission, St. Francis House, or Pine Street Inn — these and other nonprofits are always seeking volunteers and donations. For the cost of roses, candy, and a fancy dinner, your family could easily put together a package of toiletries, shelf-stable food, socks, and other needed items to share love with those who may be suffering. Community Servings also has a card program for the individuals and families they serve.

Neighbors

Sometimes it can be as simple as looking in your own neighborhood! Got a neighbor who lives alone? Head over with the kids to deliver cards and flowers! Know a family that has had a rough time lately? Grab a card and deliver a simple treat bag! Never underestimate the power of baked goods and a handmade card from a child to brighten someone’s day, regardless of their age or your relationship with them!

Whether you go all out for Valentine’s Day or prefer to skip over the holiday entirely, this February is a great time to focus on community and kindness as you share the love with those in need!

This article was written by Katie Biddle in 2020 and updated by Courtney Medlin in 2025.